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10
Jul
09

quest for a classical education

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It all started about three months ago. I wanted to reanalyze our educational approach, because I did not think that I had the tools to teach my kids thinking skills (nothing to do with the “critical thinking” so popular lately among US homeschoolers; I am talking about the reasoning skills, logical thinking skills). I know that my kids are young but I felt the world’s pluralistic and relativistic breath sneaking from everywhere, even within church’s culture, and not being recognized as such, claiming slowly peoples minds while being veiled as altruistic kindness, tolerance and acceptance.

I got my WTM book out. I did not look at it for over 2 years, since then I decided that it gave not realistic expectations of homeschooling families. Too busy, too disconnected, I thought. I did think that history cycle based curriculum, with integrated literature and other subjects would be IT. That’s why I was wanted to start TOG for two years (4 year history based, literature, geography, government, arts, philosophy, writing – all nicely integrated and flowing together for kids of different ages in your family, so you can keep them all on the same theme). Finally I did it and … as much as I like it, I started to panic that it will not provide what I wanted. One of the main reasons I got it, was the philosophy component and well organized “Socratic discussion” guides. Everything else, although made so well by them, can be done by anybody (with a great effort) who has enough time, but these two parts would be so beneficial in the future, I thought, that it will be worthy.

Although I really like TOG, I still felt that I was missing an integral and basic part. Did I really think that some kind of discussion, after taking one year or two courses of Logic, will really change the mind of a student and provoke better thinking? If not, how would I teach thinking, analyzing, persuading, debating, argumentation, criticism that is not based on so called common sense but on well developed skills? I couldn’t call it different that THINKING. I just couldn’t see how these two elements of  TOG thrown in the middle of other will really teach reasoning skills. Common sense and discussion skills are ok, but is that really what it supposed to be like?

I started to look for the answer, what kind of education (with one ds having probably dyslexia and God knows what else) would develop thinking skills leading to God as the ultimatebeauty, what kind of progression and priorities should be implemented.

My premise is that there is only one truth, and a person can know it. There has to be a way to reach to this point of finding it, following it and living by it.

I thought that maybe I need to buy some Logic curriculum and go through it. Or maybe read something online. Everybody seemed to be advising Latin which I couldn’t get why, since we need more to concentrate on learning Polish, but I thought, hey…why not Latin?

I’ve signed up for one popular classical homeschooling board and started asking questions. I also dived into googling up all related topics. The info that I found shocks me and prompts me to change many things I thought before were “classical education”, but were not. I found out about Latin Centered Curriculum and Circe Institute.

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And then I found the CLAA (fanfares). The world seemd a little brighter. My head seemd to spin a little faster. Then I started to discover what I did not know yet.

It started with looking into D. Seyers famous article on Westerners falling out of classical education wagon, which so many Protestant (and not only) classical curricula emphasizes as their guiding path. After reading an article undermining Seyer’s expertise on the subject of teaching, I digged deeper.

Soon I was asking questions on the homeschooling boards. Here are some excerpts:

Seeing in history that Christian classical curriculum brought such bright minds, scholars, teachers, saints, philosophers, writers etc. I would like to implement the same methods in our homeschooling journey. How do one goes about that? Trying to find out how they were educated, right? So…I am looking fo people who were the originators of the Christian classical method of teaching, right?

Well, in the most known circles of classical methods of education Sayers’ essay is quoted so many times as a base of the philosophy of teaching, that I can’t just overlook it. Looking at the facts about her own education (her accomplishments as woman scholar, translator, writer is unquestionable; she was not an expert on education though…) vs. experience in teaching (almost none), I am trying to examin how come her influence in this area is so enormous and followed as classcial education premise, where in reality she is not the person to follow in that area at all.

My question is: why are you following the particular author/book/methodology/curriculum (if they call themselves classical), and do you know if the theories given by the authors are well proven and by who?

I am interested in thoughts of people who think that Dorothy Sayer’s ideas were really the base of the modern classical education, and if so, why do they think so?

I am looking for the answer, which method is the one that produced the great Christian minds of the previous centuries (like Aquinas, Jerome, Augustine, Ignatius, John of the Cross, just to mention the few giants)? Surely they were talented, disciplined and focused but there had to be a teacher there. What this teacher was teaching, how and why?

I don’t want to waist my time on something that is not proven, but invented because of the needs or cultural relevancy, I guess, but I am willing to risk a lot to find the way that will lead to one and ultimate truth, God himself.

The question is about content and methodology and what is it based on.

I think that without ideology one can’t fulfill his destiny, because he will not know where, how and when to go. Without the absolutes we can’t have or see or strive for the best. God is ideal, we are sinners. That does not mean we shouldn’t think and contemplate about being pure, holy and perfect. God himself encourages us to be perfect because He is. Is that ideal? Is that practical? Reality is spiritual first, then visible. Our every day life (reality in common meaning) should evolve first around the highest things. That will provide the answers to the more visible (no lesser) things around.
Oh, gosh. I hope that I am being clear on that. I don’t want to sound way out there. Jesus came “here” from “there”, and in Him we see the best concoction of ideal and practical. But…how different priorities, time management, focus, behavior, handling of finances and wealth, debates, rhetoric etc than what we are concentrating our days around.

I think that to begin the evaluation of every important thing in our life and
doing it on the base of “what makes sense” is not the right way. For a radical fanatical Muslim in the Middle East putting bomb on himself makes sense and for many abortion makes sense (ok, this is NOT a post about abortion and Islam ).
That is extreme explanation just to get to the point that there is more to it than we think, i.e. we rally shouldn’t make choices, form opinions, form our destinies etc. just on “what makes sense”. The question would be: are there ultimate truths? The ones that we can build all of the less important, but so useful things in life. The lack of consequences in people’s choices, because they are not based on the true fundaments, are staggering, like all of the Christians should be anti-abortion, but they are clearly not (polls show that).

The think is that we wouldn’t have what we have without those dead guys in many areas of our lives. The whole Western culture was formed on these dead great guys. What would happen if some of them were not born? I don’t know. The possibilities are vast, but worth of imagining (as a homeschooling exercise, we may ask our kids: what would the world be like if Socrates, Plato, Aristotle, Alexander the Great….put whoever here…were not born?

Since then I’ve asked many more questions on the CLAA Family Forum and I’ve learned a ton from their web site. I feel like the cloud of confusion and ignorance is lifting up slowly. I am reading Plato, Augustine and Aristotle, as well as Catholic Catechism. Go figure.

I would like to enroll our children into the CLAA courses this coming 09/10 school year.

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30
Apr
09

Malachi prayer meeting

And he will turn the hearts of the fathers to the children, and the hearts of the children to their fathers. Mal 4:6

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Malachi prayer meetings started about two years ago, I guess. As a prayer focused community (IHOP-KC) we want our kids not only to bw participants but also the creators of the activities that concentrate and point toward the reality where prayer and fasting are the fundamental disciplines of every day life.

These prayer meetings are called Family Prayer Meetings, because the whole families even with the small children are coming to assist our kids in creating their own prayer meeting.

Our vision is to establish a place for families to engage in prayer together, and for parents to partner with the CEC to raise up their children as intercessors, worshippers and musicians. Our prayer meetings will be structured around twenty minute prayer themes focused on the Church of Kansas City, our government, missionaries, local schools and many other topics. Intercession times will also include times of small group prayer, rapid fire prayer, and the laying on of hands to those who are sick.

Kids and teens are leading worship, playing instruments ans leading prayers, old people (parents) are making sure that the younger crowd (under 3 years old) are not leaving the building and assisting in making the meeting to go smoothly.


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11
Dec
08

St. Nicholas party

St. Nicolas day is big in Poland, and in Europe. In Poland kids are usually waiting for St. Nicholas (święty Mikołaj) on the evening of Dec 5th. There is always an anticipation, if he will bring a gift or rózga (a bunch of sticks to beat your little behind if you were notty).

To have more fun, we invited some kids to share this special day. We’ve had Australians, Poles, Dutch among us, not mentioning out of state people, so it was truly an international event.

I have made a little puppet of St. Nicholas (bought $1 Santa Claus puppet at Dollar General, cut one part of the hat off, sewed to make a shape of tiara) to tell the stories about St. Nick. There was cookie decorating, food,  gift exchange.

05
Dec
08

St. Nicholaus, not Santa

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04
Dec
08

Advent evenings

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The History and meaning of Advent wreath

We have a tradition in our family, to celebrate Advent, as a time of expectation and hope. Each year we prepare Advent wreath, this year it is just 4 candles and greens and pine cones from our yard.

Every evening we light the candle (one candle for each week), read a Scripture for that day (this year we follow Jesse tree outline), sing Advent songs (like O, come, o come Emmanuel) or learn new Polish or English Christmas carols, read daily portion from an Advent story book (this year it is “Bartholomew’s Passage“) and make Jesse tree ornaments.

01
Dec
08

Jesse tree

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A Jesse Tree is a depiction of the genealogy of Jesus designed in such a way as to show that He springs from the “root of Jesse”  per the prophecy of Isa 11:1:

And there shall come forth a rod out of the root of Jesse [David's father], and a flower shall rise up out of his root.

Basically, it is a daily Advent activity, where following certain Scriptures, you make ornaments and put them on a Jesse or Christmas tree.

We did this two years ago in a form of a booklet. This year I give the kids freedom to choose what kind of Jesse tree ornaments they would do.

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history of Jesse Tree

Jesse tree instructions

Jesse tree calendar

Jesse tree ornaments to download

Lots of Jesse tree links

Jesse tree links on Squidoo

Great Jesse tree ornaments

Another Jesse tree ornaments

30
Nov
08

Advent

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Today is the first Sunday of Advent, and my family, like every year, will gather every night to ponder the miracle of Jesus among us. The kids will do Jesse tree project, we will sing Advent songs, read the daily Scriptures and a book. We will start celebrating Christmas on Christmas Eve, not before then.

My advice to make Advent meaningful:

1. Don’t put Christmas tree or sing carols before Christmas Eve.

2. Don’t buy more than one gift per person, give the spear money to those who really need them (like to my friends adopting Aiden, a boy with Down syndrome from Ukraine), but most of all give presence.

3. Celebrate St. Nick’s day (that’s why you are hanging your stockings for anyway…St. Nicholas is the one who is supposed to fill them with some sweets) with your kids, reminding them, who he really was.

4. Have Advent evenings with your family underlining Jesus’ first and second coming as the reason of this time.

Websites about Advent:

Advent is the season before Christmas

Daily Advent activities

Advent and Christmas Unit Study

Advent Conspiracy

Jesse Tree tradition

05
Jul
08

questions

Sophie was asking today many questions. Two of them:

“Do you think, after you die?”

That was the beginning of 3 minutes eschatology teaching on 5-year old level.

“Why can’t we be like God?”

(out of my three kids, only she could ask that… my independent, daring heart)

That was the beginning of 3 minutes Adam and Eve, consequences of sin, profitable obedience, and the issue of pride teaching. The snake’s question was pointed to, of course.

21
Jun
08

Dethroning the Prince

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19
Jun
08

Kids in ministry conference

We’ve got blessed again. Our friends, the Whites, are sponsoring Teah’s participation in Kids in Ministry conference.

This year’s theme is

13
Jun
08

wife hunt

I have a friend who is looking for a companion in his life. Here is what I found about biblical wife-hunting:

Finding a Wife

The Top 15 Biblical Ways to Acquire a Wife

Find an attractive prisoner of war, bring her home, shave her head, trim her nails, and give her new clothes. Then she’s yours.
– Deuterononmy (Deuteronomy 21:11-13)

Find a prostitute and marry her.
– Hosea (Hosea 1:1-3)

Find a man with seven daughters, and impress him by watering his flock.
– Moses (Exodus 2:16-21)

Purchase a piece of property, and get a woman as part of the deal.
– Boaz (Ruth 4:5-10)

Go to a party and hide. When the women come out to dance, grab one and carry her off to be your wife.
– Benjaminites (Judges 21:19-25)

Have God create a wife for you while you sleep. Note: this will cost you a rib.
– Adam (Genesis 2:19-24)

Agree to work seven years in exchange for a woman’s hand in marriage. Get tricked into marrying the wrong woman. Then work another seven years for the woman you wanted to marry in the first place. That’s right. Fourteen years of toil for a woman.
– Jacob (Genesis 29:15-30)

Cut off 200 foreskins off of your future father-in-law’s enemies and get his daughter for a wife.
– David (I Samuel 18:27)

Even if no one is out there, just wander around a bit and you’ll definitely find someone. (It’s all relative of course.)
– Cain (Genesis 4:16-17)

Become the emperor of a huge nation and hold a beauty contest.
– Xerxes or Ahasuerus (Esther 2:3-4)

When you see someone you like, go home and tell your parents, “I have seen a …woman; now get her for me.” If your parents question your decision, simply say, “Get her for me. She’s the one for me.”
– Samson (Judges 14:1-3)

Kill any husband and take HIS wife. (Prepare to lose four sons though).
– David (2 Samuel 11)

Wait for your brother to die. Take his widow. (It’s not just a good idea, it’s the law).
– Onan and Boaz (Deuteronomy or Leviticus, example in Ruth)

Don’t be so picky. Make up for quality with quantity.
– Solomon (1 Kings 11:1-3)

A wife?…NOT!!!
– Paul (1 Corinthians 7:32-35)

taken from here

13
Jun
08

5 year old

Teah and Kevin are at the Signs and Wonders camp (click the banner to read), which means Mon-Fri: quiet house. Right? Not, when you have 5 year old!!! I thought I would have time to attack some of the parts of the household, which are neglected an no one even knows what grows there any more, but… 5 year old needs to be entertained. So after reading 120 books, playing 38 board games, helping me with the cooking and cleaning, having some friends over, watching all of the movies we own, it’s Friday and the older kids are coming home to reunite with the lonely 5 year old Sophie.

Next year, please do the camp for 6 year old available too.

05
Jun
08

VBS – Power Lab

Thanks to Tracey Sliker, who gave me a hint on this one, this week Kids are at Power Lab – Discovering Jesus’ Miraculous Power (description with the promo video) Vacation Bible School, a program at Colonial Presbyterian church. It’s very well done and they are anticipating each day with the excitement. I am so thankful for those who made it available!!!

There is prayer-worship time, craft, Bible drama, snack time, games, experiments and movie time.

20
Apr
08

picnic

We went to the picnic. Bone fire, horses, cats, peacocks. Worship circle, glory of the sunset, laughter. One of the fasting teams at IHOP celebrated the end of their 21 day fast.

Here are all the pictures on black, or below the selection (you can click on each of them to expand).

At the end the kids were riding the horses, but the battery in the camera died…

21
Mar
08

Easter traditions in Poland

Easter Triduum

The whole week before Easter is very special. Every houshold should get a major spring cleaning before this week starts and be done by Great Thursday the latest.

Great Thursday

Celebration of the Last Supper, Passover. The only one joyful day during the week. Service at the church.

Great Friday

Day of fasting. At 3pm you should stop everything and pray.

Service of the Stations of the cross in the church:

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Remembering His suffering:

  1. Jesus is condemned to death
  2. Jesus receives the cross
  3. Jesus falls the first time
  4. Jesus meets His Mother
  5. Simon of Cyrene carries the cross
  6. Veronica wipes Jesus’ face with her veil
  7. Jesus falls the second time
  8. Jesus meets the daughters of Jerusalem
  9. Jesus falls the third time
  10. Jesus is stripped of His garments
  11. Crucifixion: Jesus is nailed to the cross
  12. Jesus dies on the cross
  13. Jesus’ body is removed from the cross (Pieta)
  14. Jesus is laid in the tomb and covered in incense.

Afterwords there is usually cross adoration. People are meditating upon the passion of Christ in silence.

Great Saturday

Dyeing eggs (pisanki). Since the 10th century we make pisanki in Poland for Easter. They symbolize new life.

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This is how your pisanki will look if you boil them with the yellow onion pills. Just throw some to the water while you boil eggs, they get this golden-yellow-brown color. The more the pills, the stronger color.

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The other way of naturally dyeing you eggs is to boil them with the beet roots pills. You get burgundy color as a result.

These below are made by first dyeing them with the natural dies and then scratching off with a special sharp tool (actually a thick needle will do)

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Preparing Easter basket (swieconka).

After pisanki are done, we prepare swieconka (click to read an explanation of the symbolism of different foods), which is Polish Easter basket.

We take swieconka to the church to be blessed:

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Saturday midnight. Celebration of resurrection. Liturgy of fire starts outside the church. Joyful Hallelujah. Procession around the church.

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The paschal candle has five nails (for five wounds on Jesus’ body) and letters alpha & omega. It symbolizes Christ, light of the world.

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Easter Sunday

Sunday morning. Instead of Good Morning you should say: Christ has risen! And the response is: He has truly risen!

Easter breakfast includes food from swieconka. We share the eggs (like breaking bread) and say wishes to each other. We pray.

The tablecloth is white, symbol of resurrection. It might be decorated with the first spring flowers. There should be a lamb, symbolizing Christ. The whole family eats together. It is a very special time.

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Special cakes called mazurek (Easter pies):

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Easter Monday (Wet Monday)

Smigus dyngus (dousing other people with water which, at one time, had been holy water blessed the day before at Easter Sunday Mass and carried home to bless the house and food). Basically you get wet if you go outside.

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This is it. No more for today. Send me your family/country traditional Christian celebrations about Easter.

Rejoice.

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